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BDSM: All About Bondage, Domination / Submission And Sadomasochism!


The BDSM universe (bondage, discipline, domination, submission and sadomasochism) is still considered a taboo and something almost inaccessible to most people. Due to films such as 50 Shades of Gray, the practice became stereotyped, emphasizing only pain, fear and forgetting excitement and desire. Those who are addicted to BDSM seek pleasure in a different way from the conventional, so it is usually the target of prejudice. In today’s text I will demystify some of this universe and explain what bondage and domination are. Were you curious? Nicolebdsm.com will give you the complete tips and techniques about BDSM.

The BDSM universe (bondage, discipline, domination, submission and sadomasochism) is still considered a taboo and something almost inaccessible to most people. Due to films such as 50 Shades of Gray, the practice became stereotyped, emphasizing only pain, fear and forgetting excitement and desire. Those who are addicted to BDSM seek pleasure in a different way from the conventional, so it is usually the target of prejudice. In today’s text I will demystify some of this universe and explain what bondage and domination are. Were you curious?

The word bondage comes from English and French and means slavery or captivity. But currently when we use that word we mean the sexual practice of BDSM. It consists of immobilizing the body of the person with whom you are having sex. Bandages can be made on only one part of the body leaving the rest free or immobilizing the entire body. Knots, ribbons, chains, different types of cloth, handcuffs or any everyday element that may serve to restrict the movements are used to make the knots and ties. It is also customary to use gags so that the person can not speak and can only make noises and sounds with the mouth; or use sales so you do not see anything happening around you.

Source of pleasure

This practice is considered aesthetic-erotic and is within the context of domination. Unlike sadomasochism, in bondage the source of pleasure is not pain. In that case, the pleasure of bondage lies in the domain of the other person, who is completely at the mercy of the one who tied him. It is necessary to emphasize that to carry out the bondage, it is vital that there is great trust and mutual respect between the two partners.

How is it practiced?

Before you begin to practice bondage, it is necessary that you and your partner have spoken and are sure that you wish to do so, and that there is sufficient trust between you to practice.

It is not recommended to engage in sexual intercourse with someone you do not know or know very little about. Because although it is not dangerous, you will be immobilized and you will be without defense.

The second step is to agree. You have to talk to your partner about everything you expect and what he expects, without shame or rejection. State clearly what you want.

The next thing you need to do is choose a paper. In this case, there are two possible options, either you tie or you are tied. If you are the one who ties, you will set the rules, whereas if you are bound, you will have to obey and fulfill all that your partner tells you. Long live your character. That is, whatever role you have played, live it to the fullest. There is nothing wrong so that you can enjoy new sensations and discover new things.

Safety

It is important that you have some words of security. It is highly recommended that your partner and you have codes in the form of words that indicate that string pressure is too strong, that you do not agree with something, or that you are having some kind of pain.

Precautions

For example, the neck, you should not pass the rope through it, since the bondage would become dangerous. It is necessary that the bonds are not very strong and that they do not cut the circulation of the blood.

It is highly recommended to have a pair of scissors in hand. In case the strings or what you used in the bonds are squeezing too much, it is better to have a scissors at hand that can cut them and thus avoid any type of damage quickly.

Objects for bondage

The most common is to use strings, but if you do not like the idea or do not have them at home, you can use other things like ties, pieces of fabric … And most important of all: use your imagination. Create a scenario that appeals to both of you and that you are character within it. Remember that bondage is used to enjoy and open new horizons.

Domination

Domination and submission are practices linked to the BDSM universe. Also known as D / S, it is the form of denominating an unequal relationship established between two people, where all power is given to the dominant and it is up to the submissive part to obey voluntarily, performing tasks and obeying orders that may or may not have sexual connotations. Domination can be physical or mental.

The relationship

Within the relationship of domination, sadism and masochism may exist, not necessarily the main ingredients of the relationship. In most cases, there is a relation of affection, based on the pleasure of giving oneself to the submissive (a) and of commanding oneself by the dominant, and it is very common that this relation is a bit confused at first, but it is important that the submissive meets the domineering always.

In the relationship of domination the man is called the DOM and the women DOMMES. Submissives are called Sub. In addition to these nicknames, it is common for dominators to call themselves titles of nobility, such as Sir, Lord, Queen, or Master, lord, owner, among others. Submissive individuals can also call themselves in various ways from the most humble, such as servant, slave, bitch, worm, even the most vulgar to those who like to be humiliated.

The limit of pleasure and pain

When we talk about BDSM, it seems very easy to understand the person who acquires the dominant role and how it can be erotic to have the power of a situation. Therefore, understanding the role of the submissive and how such situations can sexually excite someone is more complicated. The line of pleasure and pain is very tenuous, physiologically speaking. What separates them, basically, is the interpretation we give to these organic sensations. The fear, produced by the humiliations and the attitudes of domination, causes an automatic adrenaline, which is responsible for sexual excitement.

Pain produces endorphins, which are also present in orgasm. However, the pain itself produces no erotic pleasure, but if accompanied by dopamine, which is generated by sexual attraction, they become an explosive mixture that can cause a sudden pleasure.

Forms of domination

There are many ways to “dominate” someone and each BDSM relationship is different. There is the mistaken idea that domination is tied to physical pain, but it need not be so. For example, it may include housework, homework, worship, massage, kindness. Mastering is not just “punishments” and obligations. It is very important to reward a submissive when he behaves well.

A game of domination may be part of the preliminaries or, in many cases, may not even have conventional sex. Sometimes there is not even physical contact between dominant and submissive, as in the case of virtual domination.

Care

BDSM is the ideal place for abusers since they can camouflage themselves perfectly and take advantage of people who do not know the relationships within that world. There are many girls who have had psychological problems because they have a sexual relationship with someone who was a false “dominant”. But how to identify an abuser?

If you want to fully immerse yourself in BDSM and want to find a person who allows you to try it, you should get away from all those who believe that domination is only done to command or compel. If he limits himself to asking for obedience from the beginning and does not ask him about his limits, run away. A dominant person can do nothing if he does not know the limits of the other.


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